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Latest Cruising Discussion in All India why do u need to waste the money on dildos... I am a married guy too... Just keep it simple However, Harikr did me a favour by breaking a stereotype of men with homosexual tendencies being more sensitive towards women. Shudder to think what treatment the womenfolk of certain households must be receiving- not even talking of matters in the bed. Hope you do not wish for a son-in-law like yourself, if there's a daughter here. I'm normally not so personal and vicious, but Harikr, your articulation here has disgusted me to the core. Harikr, I had a hearty laugh while reading your latest post. I have called you an MCP based on what you have stated here - i. You have substantiated my reasoning in the second paragraph of your post. You are using such words as family bonds and happiness, but it is based on secrecy and cheating. Aren't complete trust in your partner part of your family value system? You are saying that the moment the veil of secrecy is teared off, the happiness will disappeared. This is precisely what me and others have been writing about. Your wife does not know that you are cheating on her, but you do know. So if you are treating your wife as equal, then your mind should be telling you that you have been betraying her. The true sacrifice would have been to be completely loyal to your wife as loyal as you expect her to be towards you and forgetting your homosexual instincts. I need not reply to the questions and comments about me, but here I am. I am not at all interested in women, hence I have chosen to remain single. Going by your previous posts, I guess you will interpret it as my inability to satisfy women sexually. But then, that will make you homophobe. There are many guys like me who refuse to marry in spite of societal pressure, and I am happy to say our tribe is growing. I do not have any issue with bisexuals enjoying both ways, but the only thing they should keep in mind is, if you are entering the contract of marriage, then your behaviour is no different from those married men, who have extramarital affairs, with other women. It's funny to call it a right to satisfy your homosexual urge after getting married. Spmebody has compared bi-men keeping their sexuality secret from wife with all gay men keeping it out from their parents and relatives. I don;t expect everyone to be like that, or even understand that, even many straight marriages are based on sexual relationships. HariKr, If you don't need her permission to carry flings or surf here, why would she need your permission either? Assuming she has unfulfilled heterosexual or homosexual desires, doesn't she deserve to find her channel like you did? You talk of 'not allowing' someone else to decide what to do with their bodies speaks a lot. She too has only one life, what's the problem if she exercised her choice like you do? What's fair for the guy, should be for the girl too! You can do whatever you want with your lives. But please don't use the alibi of 'bisexual' to describe your extra marital affairs. Infidelity is not limited to any gender or sexual orientation. But if you try to prove to yourself or to others that you are sleeping with men only because you do not want to 'suppress' your sexual attraction toward men then I am sorry I will call it out. But if you choose to embrace all your desires and act on them, my best wishes to you. Excellent reply for certain people who are prejudiced and biased against bisexuals. Avoid such divide guys. And many seem to be unhappy too. Most of the bisexuals are commenting that they are happy in their life and I don't know why many gays are desperately trying to prove that bisexuals married life is pathetic and unhappy. There are happily and unhappily married guys in all categories and please stop stereotyping. Also stop talking about morality and woman's right and all here. As Harikr rightly said, None here is against their partner's happiness and all married guys try to keep their family happy. At the same time, no need to suppress these feelings as long as U can enjoy this short life happily and safely without harming anyone else. Balance the life, enjoy and live it happily!! I have never been married but have friends who have married out of pressure and the response is mixed. Frankly I believe it is how you can juggle through responsibilities that come with the social institution of marriage and understanding the intrinsic nature if marriage. I don't want to enter too much into your personal life to excavate the reason for that complex, none of my business : : Thats all how I look into what you are saying here. As I have very clearly said, I do have a very happy satisfied married life and my wife too has which is obvious from the happiness that prevails in our family. If I have to conceal certain aspects of my personal characteristic for that happiness, so be it. Coming to the question of equality, I certainly would not allow my spouse to have an extra marital affair and I strongly believe that she would not need it too probably unlike yours, I am not sure as I am able to satisfy her in all aspects including in bed. For that matter, I strongly believe that I can satisfy any normal woman in the world in bed. And of course I do not and will not allow the partner to have an extra marital affair the same way as she does not allow me to have it. That is the strong establishment and bonding called family. The moment either of us come to know anything like that exists, that would be probably end of a happy family life. Now as I clearly said, the affairs I have with others, if at all I have, is done in utmost secrecy to satiate my desire which I cannot tell her and I don't want to tell either. So I certainly hide my Bisexual side from her and I never feel anything being wrong with it at all. And again, I know how to manage this life happily and perfectly, I don't care whatever others say about this being immoral blah... Hope I have made it very clear now. And of course, this is the case of probably 99% of the guys here about having the affair though many people just write about equality and some craps like that..... Also , why R u not able to answer my questions and just come back with questions after question for which I am clearly giving you retort and U r conveniently avoiding the questions to you. Why are u so much prejudiced against bisexuals? We live the best life and we will continue to live it, thats none of your business to be bothered about. Don't be envious about it dude.... Stop talking against bisexual like a womanizer or a pseudo feminist. As I said we have only one life to enjoy peacefully. You can call it double standard but if you can keep everyone happy why not?. Many times we have to let go many opportunities and that is what I meant by Sacrifices. If any one, husband or wife betrays and gets caught then marriage will break. Being bi we do not expect our wife to accept our reality. Hence we do not come in open. We are doing exactly what many gays are doing. All gays who are in closet are caring for their relations with parents uncle aunts cousins and hence they are in closet. Caring is not being coward. So why blame each other. This post is about Are bi people happy in marriage. And answer is yes. If we are okay to pay price to keep our happiness its our choice. Where can I buy a dildo. I want to buy it in person. Or her permission is not necessary. Do you realise what you are saying makes you an MCP. I wonder, you might be even proud of being an MCP. Your ASSSS need to learn opening up more. Your ASSS should learn to stretch. I have always used coconut oil and never felt a need of lube. Who said doggu style?? U will be stupid to do this for fisrt time. It open ur hole well and open u for deep penetration and this can be proble if ur partner is ageeasive,anger or not taking clues. I mean he have to push some buttons but u dont want take risk. In missinary, ur parnter can take help of lube and gravity and insert himself. Speed control is over ur partner but this position really help cause of gravity.. And second is obvious one u sit on ur partner. All control is on u ,unless ur partner decide to lift his hip for a surprise.. U r doing it here, right? Do u allow her to have the extra marital affair like u have with gays? CluelessHubby , Why are U reading between the lines and giving your own interpretation to what I said? Whatever I do and get additional enjoyment, I do that after ensuring that my family is safe and fully satisfied. They will never come to know about what I am doing. U r doing it here, right? Do u allow her to have the extra marital affair like u have with gays? I tried prostate massage but I didn't any pleasurable experience... Why, Harikr, do you insinuate that women wives esp do not have the right to sexual freedom and self-expression like their husbands? Hey guys, i would like to share my experience with you as well. So i initiated with the marker pen after applying coconut oil on it. So i studies a lot over the internet and finally i came to know whats the actually procedure to follow. It took me more then 3 to 4 months to finally get my hole a bit broader. What i actually used to do is basically hand shower jet and fill my bowel area with the water and then push it out. I repeat this at least 5-10 times. I then wash myself properly with soap and again insert my 1-2 finger to drain out the residue liquid which generally left out in it, which actually comes out a bit warm, due to the body temperature which warms the water. Anyways once i am all cleaned up i practice fingering myself with the help of ponds body lotion dont use coconut oil rather the water based gel, which is actually costly to use regularly so i prefer ponds body lotion. I start with 1 finger then 2 then 3 and then 4, i keep stroking my fingers in and out for at least 5-10 mins daily, which keeps my anus smooth, soft, wider and lubricated. Once i am done with the finger i do a bit of prostate massage which is by far the most pleasurable exercise that once could ever imagine on this earth. I perform it with 2 fingers, the middle finger and the ringer finger. I keep tickling the prostate and believe me its the highest level of ecstasy that one could ever attain. Its an art which basically hardly 5% guys can perform it well. Its a slow, steady, pleasurable process. Dont rush to widen your anus, sometimes while finger, it cuts inside and even the blood comes out, but dont be afraid of it. Let it rest for 2-3 days and again continue. Anus rings are not like any other muscles, they stay relaxed and soft when we work upon it. And it goes back and stiffed when not worked upon for few days. Avoid using cold water in winters rather use warm water. While doing the penetration exercise use front camera to see what and how you are performing. Last but not the least always use follow the breathing process while penetration, which is the most important parameter. Let me clear what is it. LOL, I see many gays here trying to stereotype Bisexuals as lairs and cheaters. It is individual's nature and choice. There are a lot of pure bottom or top married gays too do the same. Being another bi-sexual happily married guy, I have never faced anything so tough in life being a bisexual. I have not and will not tell my orientation to family either. In fact I enjoy and Thank God for making me a bisexual rather than a pure gay or straight guy, so that I can enjoy both to the fullest extent in my life. And of course I do enjoy that. Now coming to the part of morality and cheating, who defines this morality guys? There is only one life, enjoy it satisfying your desires and without hurting others. Ensure that you take all precautions to hide it from your partner. So as per you, she too has the right to do what u r doing, right? Come on, Where do u draw the line??? So just keep it simple and don't make it complicated thinking too much about it! Satisfy your desire, ensure to hide it wherever required and enjoy life! But what are the sacrifices involved? I second the views expressed by crazycruiser and Gulfisaforever. Have come across many stories real life where ,married bi guys have played with the emotions of single gays, mostly bottom. They hide the fact that they are married from the boyfriend and hide the homosexuality from their wives. I did not want to name anyone, but cant help. Found the post by abcxyz89 specially repulsive. Each of the point it puts forward. It has turned the meanings of the terms sacrifice and selfishness upside down. When we are aspiring and people are fighting for a respect for homosexuals, the post underlines homosexuality as something shameful. All these happily married bi-guys must answer the question, as to how they will feel, if their wives indulge in the same activities,which they are indulging in. Don't reply that I am keeping my wife fully satisfied so she has no reason to go out. Suppose the wives of some of these happily married bi or gay males started having affairs. Basically just started dleeping around with other men or women. How many of them would find it acceptable? I imagine them crying foul. Hamari society me yehi nhi chalta n all. Why these double standards, this hypocrisy. Just admit ur follies n be done with it. Rather than trying to come across as great martyrs of the society. You are also free to blame whoever you want to. Parents family society whoever. But dont imagine your excuses will find any sane takers. According to you, you aspire to MAKE EVERYBODY HAPPY. By ENJOYING MAXIMUM without hurting anyone? Is that what u r trying to say? I m not into moral policing at all, but that just sounded disgusting n dirty to me what u wrote. Bina andolan India me kuchh nahi milega, I agree with Ashpal Even I am into happy marriage for more than 20 years. We hide our sexual orientation for hapiness of all family members Parents: no parent would want their child to be gay and live lonely old age. Its a wonderful emotional relationship which you cannot spoil. Children: they are the bundle of joy. We cannot bring them up in unhappy environment. Our ownself: At same time we have right to enjoy our sexuallity. So enjoy within limits so that everyone is happy. Do not be selfish and destroy family. After all we have to live in this society which provides our needs of food shelter clothing. Caring for others emotions is not being coward. It takes lot of skills and sacrifice to be a Married Bi. Actually for many cousin is the best friend, a brother too but more of a friend. You both have grown together, become young together, etc.. There is no elder brotherly feeling in cousin relationship. So I guess it is but natural to have crush or experience with a cousin in younger days when one is still experimenting with his own sexuality. If you are regularly bottoming or even otherwise, ensure that you include lot of fibers salads, leafy veggies in your diet so that the stools pass properly. Any left over particles inside hurt during penetration or are great embarrassment. I clean my butt with fingers and douche it just before hitting with someone. You fill it with warm water insert its head into the anus and gently squeeze it so that the water goes in. Just one or two rounds is good enough. Wait for 10-15 mins and do not lie down during this time, either sit or stand. Then just sit on the toilet and let it all out. Also I noticed but no ones mentioned butt plug till now. It helps a lot by reducing the pain. Although it's hard to get these toys in India. But inserting things of similar shape works just as well, hand railing ball heads are perfect. You just have to make sure that it has a wide base, otherwise if the whole thing slips in by mistake then the only way to get it out is by going to a hospital. The wide circular base must remain outside the hole. Someone can easily get diarrhoea. There's a reason it burns when u put it inside, it's your body saying that it's causing damage! Your douche idea is correct but it should be used only with warm water at most. If you see the internal structure then the passage bends to the side after a short distance. Pumping too much water is gonna flood it and you'll have watery discharge leaking for the rest of your day. You only need to pump enough to fill the vertical part of your colon. Go to the med shop and say u have a friend due for colonoscopy and need to douche. He will give u a big dropper type of thing. That position pains the least. Apply a lot of lotionn then sit. Yes at the tip it will pain a lot but allow to stay there then it will slide nicely inside. You can then jump on him and then take different positions. I have a very very tight tender hole myself inspite of being fkd a few times. But every time it gets tight again. Though the missionary position is very painful but I love it. I did read quite a bit on the Internet, but many made reference to using some water pressure gadgets etc. Looking for more of a home based solution. Let gravity do its work and then when u are comfortable with it inside, do doggy or whatever Being a pure bottom myself, I can try to help by saying what i do. And i mean lots!!! You're not ready till there's enough lube to let two fingers go in without any resistance at all. Then apply same amount of lube to the head too. You're with a top. You need him to complete you. Your sole purpose in life is to please tops. Your pleasure comes later. Be grateful you have a top who is there for you. That used to help my mi d. I don't know why should I reveal my other sexual orientation to my family.... I am loyal to my family.... You have to understand certain things - 1. Revelation about your sexual orientation has to have a reason. In maximum cases reasons are provided by one self only. If one cannot handle without hurting someone then don't do it. I stated my experiences so I don't think anybody is offended. As for positions, for first timers doggy style is best as the penetration isn't very deep and even the very passionate spoon position. With time you can try missionary and bull dog or any other positions. You are lucky to have one. But what surprises me is how come you are doing it without protection from the inception. Usually as the relationship progresses over a span, the decision whether to continue with protection or not is taken. Also remember there is nothing like opening, tight or loose hole. The anus retracts to natural tightness once the act is over. Actually your problem is quite common among early bottoming. I went through the same. My partner was very patient and ultimately we could actually do it after 3 months. Firstly you have to indulge in good foreplay so that you overcome your nervousness and your muscles get relaxed. Ensure that you have cleaned your entrails thoroughly before going for it. Ask your partner to make a slow entry by applying steady pressure till it goes beyond the spinster. While it is crossing the spinster, you will feel sharp pain. At this point don't ask your partner to take it out but stay still at that point itself for a minute until the pain subsides and then continue further penetration. Just relax, stay calm and safe and enjoy. I am usually top but one day I thought to be btm.. I tried but did not happen hole was so tight.. Gay Dating - We have thousands of gay personals online on this free gay dating website. These sexy gay single men are looking for a gay match. Our online gay personal ads have helped thousands discover their perfect match using our Online Gay Dating Service. Join them today and find your perfect gay match with cute sexy gay guys. Here are some great gay dating profiles of hot men who joined recently.
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